Monthly Archive for April, 2009

Jobless in Vienna

I think a lot of expats can sympathize with me about being jobless in a foreign country. Now is a particularly brutal time due to the world economic downturn.

The only way to deal with the situation is humor. This is what I have discovered since my first full week being jobless.

Ironing isn’t as bad as it used to be when faced with nothing else to do. I ripped out the entire contents of my closet last week and ironed everything. I was seriously considering ironing Paul’s underwear, but a little voice in my head told me that might be taking it a little too far.

Cleaning the apartment and running the dishwasher/washing machine is fun damn it!

My exercise DVDs are not the demon spawn I always thought they were.

My cat ignores me.

I’m sure my husband’s dream of having a housewife vanished when I made him a grilled cheese sandwich with whole-wheat bread, low-fat cheese, and low-fat margarine (did you know that low-fat margarine exists? That’s what you discover when you have time to troll the grocery store instead of zipping through it).

Double-sided tape is a little miracle worker. One can use it to:
Train a cat
Rid furniture of pet hair
Wrap gifts without tape showing
Keep clothing in place

But so far what I have learned since being jobless is how nice people are. The people who know me have jumped to support me any which way they can. I received phone calls of sympathy, emails with links to job websites, offers to review and perfect my resume, and offers to connect me to their network. Thank you for the kindness that I have received so far. You have no idea how warm it makes me feel.

To see my professional profile please go to:

https://www.xing.com/profile/Britta_Pichler

http://www.linkedin.com/in/brittapichler

Friends for an Expat

This was one thing I didn’t think about before moving to another country and becoming an expat. Making new friends. I thought about how much I will miss my Los Angeles friends. I was determined and found out ways to stay in contact with them (Skype.com). But having virtual friendships (as that’s what they are now) only get you so far. In the end, I cannot meet a LA friend for lunch in the Inner City of Vienna.

Now that I am settled in my adopted home in Vienna, Austria, I’ve been on the quest to make new friends. It’s strange to be out looking for friends at my age. I mean, I’ve known my Los Angeles friends for a minimum of five years. I have established relationships with them. Now I’m starting from scratch.

How does one go about looking for friends? I made all of my friends while in school. But I’m not in school anymore. I’ve never been too keen on making friends with my co-workers. I’ve always liked my co-workers, but I see enough of these fine people during the week, thank you very much.

At first I reached out through my husband, who IS currently in school. He preselected these people and brought them home. We have fun together, but I don’t care for the idea of someone else pre-selecting my friends for me.

Paul also has family here in Vienna. We spend some time with them, but there is an air of obligation. As if they feel sorry for us because we have no where else to go. Not the most comfortable feeling.

I have an Austrian friend in Vienna. We’ve known each other for years. Karin is great, a real sweetheart. She’s tried to bring me into her circle of friends, but in the end, there are language and cultural barriers that neither side knows how to get through. Whenever I spend time with Karin, again, I feel that there is an air of obligation. Who wants to be a burden to hang out with?

My lovely Los Angeles friends told me in a caring way that I needed to take up a hobby. My thought process was, Why? My job is my hobby. (Okay, not the healthiest thought process but there it is). That, and I am not a joiner of groups. It’s just not my thing.

At least though, the suggestion sank in over a course of six months and I found a happy medium. I joined not one group, but two. I joined two professional business women associations. I said a happy medium! And I have to admit, I am very happy that I joined these two groups. One is an English speaking group and the other is a German speaking group. The women are fun, intelligent, go-getters and I just like them. These ladies really just like to spend time with the group and attend interesting lectures about the business world.

So far it seems there is an opportunity to forge friendships with the women of the two groups I joined. I haven’t found a shopping buddy yet, but who knows.

Cultural Clash and a Fix

I’ve been an expat in Austria now for a year and a half. I’ve been lucky, and have been working most of my time here. To my surprise, the biggest culture shock that I have experienced is working with Austrians. I go about being my American self and find that I have strong resistance from some (but not all) Austrian co-workers.

For example. I find Austrians are very quick to say, “That’s the problem, there’s no work around. I can’t help you.” I took offense to this. I thought, this co-worker is just trying to get out of being a team player and helping me with a problem. Barely hanging onto my temper I would talk my co-worker through different possible solution options. Unfortunately I found that some co-workers just didn’t want to hear it. They thought I was being pushy, demanding, or just telling them what to do and it would end in both sides being mad. I would go back to my desk and take up IT problems, graphic design problems, accounting problems, and so on and find solutions relatively quickly. Then I would think, what a jerk!

I’ve come away angry, confused, and feeling abused more times than I can count. At my last job in the United States, I was heavily praised by my co-workers and managers. I was labeled a rising star and a powerhouse. So it was tempting to fall into the, it’s not me, it’s them mind frame, but I know in my heart that will get me nowhere fast.

So finally in my befuddlement, I turned to a good friend of mine, Dr. Mike Moodian. He is a professor at Chapman University. He holds a doctorate in organizational leadership from Pepperdine University. He is the author of Contemporary Leadership and Intercultural Competence: Exploring the Cross-Cultural Dynamics Within Organizations. You can find the book on Amazon here

Okay, so I’ve established that Mike is qualified to answer a cultural difference question. Below is his response to me.

Hi Britta,

Let me give you the academic answer followed by the simple answer because that’s the best way for me to process my thoughts. And yes, feel free to use any of this in your blog.

The Academic Answer
First, let’s look at the major organizational/cultural differences between Austria and the U.S. To do this, I will refer to the work of Dr. Geert Hofstede, a Dutch writer and professor. Hofstede is the thought leader in the field of cultural differences in organizations (you can see that he is cited throughout my book). He quantitatively ranked the countries of the world based on numerous cultural dimensions, including uncertainty avoidance, masculinity, and individualism.

I believe that the dimension where is the biggest problem may lie for you is in the Power Distance. This dimension is defined as the extent to which those without power in the organization accept the unequal distribution of power. For example, Malaysia, Guatemala, and Mexico rank very highly in Power Distance. Thus, a common cultural practice in those countries would be to “do as your told” and not question directives, even if they are unreasonable. It turns out that Austria ranks the lowest in Power Distance (score of 11). Therefore, it is unlikely for people to overwork themselves (much like some union environments in the U.S.) because they would perceive it as exploitation by those who are running things. The Power Distance score of the U.S. is 40, which is in Germany’s ballpark of 35.

You come from the country which ranks highest in Individualism (score of 91). The American system is based on a free-market economy where people are expected to work hard, compete, pull themselves up by their bootstraps, and live the “American Dream.” Austria (like Poland, Hungary, and Israel) has a middle-of-the-road ranking of 55.

Of course, we are speaking in general terms. For example, the environment that we are discussing could also apply to American organizations, especially public agencies. You often find fear, distrust, poor communication, and a high level of bureaucracy in federal or state-run organizations in the U.S. Vienna is a big city, and the right fit for you exists (it’s just yet to be discovered).

The Simple Answer
At the end of the day, adapting to a new environment is simply going to take a lot of practice. You are aware of the differences, and your ability to work across cultures will only make you a stronger candidate for future jobs.

When I first read Mike’s email to me, I have to confess, it didn’t really sink in. I was still in the mad mode. But then I read it a second time. Then I read it a third time. And I guess the third time really is the charm, because then it sank in.

Look at the Power Distance in Austria. It’s really true. They are all about do-as-you’re-told. In an environment like that, you are not rewarded for thinking outside of the box. You get screamed at. I should know, it has happened to me. So therefore the co-worker who says to me, “Sorry can’t help you” really means it. They can’t help me. They’ve been brought up in a culture that smacks them for thinking outside of the box and coming up with unique solutions to a problem. Now I feel sorry for them instead of being mad!

Mike also made a good point. I repeat one of his paragraphs below.

Of course, we are speaking in general terms. For example, the environment that we are discussing could also apply to American organizations, especially public agencies. You often find fear, distrust, poor communication, and a high level of bureaucracy in federal or state-run organizations in the U.S.

This is so true! How many times have you been abused by the DMV people for example!

The above point that Mike made was the most important to me. Once this paragraph really sank in, I remembered all the great Austrians that I worked with who are more like me. Solution orientated. Fast-paced. Hard working. I can name a lot more like that than I can name those who said to me, “That’s the problem, sorry, can’t help you.” So now I admire these Austrian co-workers who have rejected their own cultural pressures and who insist in thinking outside of the box.

Okay, I can go on dissecting Mike’s words, but it’s much more effective if you do it yourself.

So listen expats, I know it’s frustrating being abroad. I know it’s hard. I’m as guilty as anyone out there about complaining about those Austrians. But whenever I open my mouth, there is a little whisper in the back of my head that always says, “You know it isn’t always the case. You know you’re being unfair to a lot of great people. Why don’t you just stop complaining.”

I haven’t yet managed to keep my mouth shut, but the complaining is getting less frequent. At least it’s a step forward.

Krems and Dürnstein Austria

Sundays can be boring in Austria as all stores close down. Once the apartment is cleaned, it’s pretty much lay around the place, or go out and look for some adventure. I purchased an Austrian guidebook for this specific purpose.

Two days ago my husband and I got in the car and drove an hour away from Vienna to explore two little towns nearby. Krems and Dürnstein. Our first stop was Krems. It’s a cute little town with not really much to see. We walked around and looked at all the closed stores, then walked up to a church. In 20 minutes we were done with the town. It was a bit of a disappointment. We could have done the same thing in Vienna.

Dürnstein is 5 miles away from Krems so we were off. We took a road that went along the Danube and it was very pretty, as we are enjoying great summer-like weather right now that is between 70-75F. We walked around the town a little and soaked in old European charm. Then we hiked up to the ruins. And I mean hiked UP. It was steep. I only made it because little kids and old people were passing me by, and my pride wouldn’t  let me quit. It was worth it though. The view was so beautiful. Rolling green hills, the Danube, and fertile wine land. Once we made our way back down from the ruins, we felt we had earned lunch. We found a winery that had seating outside with a perfect view of the Danube and its vines surrounding as. Check it out at Alter Klosterkeller

Overall I would suggest a visit to Dürnstein and say skip Krems. Here’s a link for more about Dürnstein

Dürnstein, Austria

Dürnstein, Austria

Ruins in Dürnstein Austria

Ruins in Dürnstein Austria




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