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Thoughts from an Austrian

One of my favorite readers just sent me a personal email in regards to the thoughts my blog and other expats have inspired in him. I’ve posted his thoughts in the past on my blog because I think he makes really good points. Also, I think it is fair to post an Austrian view point. Below you’ll see his comments.

Helimax, his user name, is making a reference to my first ever blog post Fashion – Or the Lack Thereof The rest of his thoughts seem to be something he just wanted to share with us.

Hi Britta!

I was just talking to a friend about Austrians and I thought I should write my thoughts down for you. Maybe you can use them in your blog.

One of the major differences to eg. France or the US is that thereare no ‘ghettos’ – of course there some neighborhoods with more immigrants from ex-Yugoslavia, Turkey, etc.. and some with more poorpeople and some with less and so on, but it is still mixed up. And people don’t stay in their neighborhood. Poor people got to Kärtnertstrasse and native Austrians go to Brunnenmarkt for fresh vegetables etc..

This leads to some points you mentioned in your blog. eg. bad-dressed people. Lower educated or poor people usually dress differently (may call it ‘not so good’). but eg. in Paris you will not see them – they stay in their banlieue. Dress code and knowing how to dress is mainly depending on the social status. So of course in Vienna’s 1st or 19th district the people are generally better dressed, but there are a lot of non-good-dressed people because there are no social- or other barriers for the people with lower status to enter these areas.

Another – for me – big difference between US and Austria is the definition of social-status. In the US money is a big status-factor. In Austria people with money are always ’suspicious’ – ‘where do theyhave the money from?’ ‘is it legal?’ or if you borne with money -everybody thinks you got no problems and anything comes to you without work. In general money is only accepted if someone works really hard for it and is known for doing so – anything else is socially not accepted. that’s why only few people drive really expensive cars. The real rich don’t do it, because the don’t want to be recognized and don’twant to be socially unaccepted. Only the ‘Neureiche’ show their wealthand got therefor a really bad reputation.

On the other side in Austria, reputation is defined by titles, that’s why they are so important. But there are also differences. ‘Real’ titles from universities esp. Mag.,Dipl.Ing. and Dr. have a high reputation because you had to work for some years to earn it. Bachelor, FH-titles, etc.. got quite low reputation. Honorary titles are seen in the mid-range, because you must have done something to get them.

To get back to clothing: if you got a title you don’t have to dress good to show your status. That’s another reason why dressing is considered not so important in Austria.

Some – maybe confusing – thoughts collected from my chat with a non-Austrian friend.

Greetings from the snowy mountains :) and a happy new year!

Helimax

Celsius Please

I just downloaded the www.weather.com app onto my Google Android cell phone. Clearly I have been working at tech companies for too long, because 1) I HAVE a Google Android cell phone  2)  was capable of this download procedure and 3) was excited about the app.

To my great disappointment however, I cannot change the weather app from Fahrenheit to Celsius. Let’s face it, what does 43F actually mean? I’ve never LIVED in 43F weather before, being a native Californian. Tell me that it is 2C and I understand that this means it is freaking cold outside because it is near freezing.

Here is another thought for you. Why Fahrenheit? Is that secretly a German word? For those of you who speak German, look at it! Fahren-heit.

People, I think I’ve been in Austria for too long.

Culturally Confused

I’ve been in Vienna now over two years. Over this time period, it has crept up on me that I have adopted more Austrian cultural ways than I had originally noticed.

This has become apparent over the last two weeks as I have run into other Californians in Vienna. One I met at a networking event. We were introduced and we started chatting. We hit it off and had a really nice conversation. In typical California style to show companionship, she reached out to wrap an arm around me for a casual hug. We Californians are huggers for whatever reason. It’s like the Continental air kiss. Everyone does it. I guess I have been out of CA long enough, because in reaction, I stiffened in surprise. The poor friendly woman noticed right away and pulled her arm off of me as if burned. I felt so bad! I just had a typical Austrian reaction to a typical Californian action. What the heck? Had this same exact situation happened to me two years ago, my automatic reaction would have been to lean into the hug and hug back. Am I losing my Californication?

Another similar situation happened to me again on Friday. I had met this other Californian woman a time or two. When I saw her on Friday, I walked up to her and air kissed her just as she opened her arms for a hug. She exclaimed “Oh!” and air kissed me back in surprise. Oops!

Now I’m culturally confused. How am I to greet not only other Californians, but other Americans?

A recent friend of mine is from the (American) Mid-West. Every time we met up, upon greeting, we stood a bit awkwardly and just said a lame, “Hi.” We didn’t know whether to hug in greeting or air kiss, so we just left it at nothing. Finally, we got sick of the lukewarm greeting and have just adopted the air kiss, but I think that’s because we’ve both been here for the same amount of time.

It ain’t easy being an expat.

Denglisch in Vienna

This is the worst case of Denglisch that I have ever seen! Check out the photo below. This is packaging from some tomatoes that I bought. It does in fact read “The fruit that really schmecks!” Ahaahahaaa.

For those of you who aren’t in the know, Denglisch is a portmanteau of the German words Deutsch and Englisch. Used in all German-speaking countries, it describes an influx of English, or pseudo-English, vocabulary into the German language. (Yes, I stole that sentence from Wikipedia).

Denglisch in Vienna

Denglisch in Vienna

Fruitcake in Vienna

Today in the mail I got a fruitcake from the company that I bought my water heater from. Yes, you read that correctly. I got a fruitcake. From the company that I bought my waterheater from. Um… okay…..

Being an expat is full of new experiences. A fruitcake is one of them. I’ve never actually seen a fruitcake in real life, let alone received one. So naturally I was curious if its reputation is as bad as its taste. Yep. It is.

I cut off the edge piece, popped it in my mouth and thought for all of 0.5 seconds, “Now come on, this isn’t so bad.” But then I felt the moisture get sucked from my mouth. Then a weird taste spread over my tongue. I felt my lips pucker in distaste. I bravely let the intro piece to fruitcake meet my stomach, but I promptly chucked the whole thing in the trash.

Thanks for nothing waterheater company. Merry Friggin Christmas to you too.

Fruitcake in Vienna

Fruitcake in Vienna

Published Author

I submitted one of my blog posts, got it published, and got paid for it! Wow!

Check out the article, titled “Surviving the Office Jungle Abroad”

Giant Chocolate – again

Once again me with giant chocolate. This isn’t a joke. I am, in fact, holding real chocolate. My arms actually got a little tired from posing for the photo.

Toblerone in Vienna

Toblerone in Vienna

Viennese and Their Dogs

The Viennese love their dogs. To accomodate this love, dogs are allowed everywhere. Public trains, in stores, even in restaurants.

I happen to like dogs and the fact that they are allowed pretty much everywhere doesn’t really bother me. Even in a restaurant, the dog owner usually shoves the hound under the table and I probably don’t even notice most of the four-legged visitors.

There is one exeception however. In October, some American friends of mine came to visit. I took them out to a trendy, upscale restaurant to show them a good time in Vienna. To our shock and horror, a fellow diner took dog love too far. We had to be subtely, but check out the photo below.

dogOnGuysLap_Vienna

The guy is sitting in a nice restaurant with his dog on his lap, and a glass of water for the dog on the bench. This. Is. Gross.

Spa Visit in Hungary

An American friend of mine who also lives in Vienna, found a fabulous day spa right on the Austrian/Hungarian boarder. We American gals miss our day spa visits, especially manicures and pedicures. In the U.S. a nail salon is right around the corner, and for a reasonable $20 you can get a manicure. Here in Vienna, you’re looking at €40. No way!

The day spa in Hungary is fabulous because of its price. A spa manicure costs €16! Massages €25. Price wasn’t the only positive. Other great aspects were the modern facility, extreme cleanliness, and the other clients. Both men and women of high fashion were swinging the doors of the place as they rushed in and out for appointments. Also another great point. The place is open on Sundays. A great way to prepare for the work week if you ask me.

The only downside of the spa was its business-like efficiency. I was efficiently shuffled from one treatment to the other, with no extra trims for pampering. If you are looking for extreme luxury when going to a day spa, this isn’t the place for you. Also, the staff doesn’t speak English. Almost all of them speak German, but if not that, then you are stuck using hands and feet to communicate.

Overall though, I think the place is fabulous and I intend to go back again and again. Best thing to do is grab a couple of friends to split the gas cost, and jet off for a Sunday.

Men, if you are looking for a gift for the upcoming holidays, the lady in your life will probably appreciate a trip here.

http://www.wabi.hu/

What’s it Like in the U.S.?

Almost all Austrians will eventually ask me, “What’s it like in America?”

My usual response to this question is, “I don’t know, I’m from California.” I get weird looks from the people I say this too.

Just yesterday I was reading through the TIME website and found a great article that explains exactly what I mean.

http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1931582,00.html




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